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Program highlights domestic violence
By ANDIE LEATHERMAN, LTN Staff Writer
Oct. 22 - Over 150 victims of domestic violence have been helped by Amy’s House Domestic Violence Shelter this year.
The public can learn more about the problem, the shelter, and solutions Tuesday night.
Sheriff Barbara Pickens will be the keynote speaker. Several women who have left abusive relationships will speak during the 6 p.m. chicken pie dinner.
Elle Tallent will sing, and the program will end with a candlelight vigil.
October is domestic violence awareness month and advocates hope to draw attention to the problem.
“People don’t realize domestic violence is as bad as it is in Lincoln County,” said Vicky Lingerfelt, shelter administrator.
Some 15 wooden silhouettes of women will stand around the auditorium during the dinner, bearing silent witness to the problem. Three of the silhouettes represent Lincoln County women who
have died from abuse.
In addition to shelter, confidential counseling, court advocacy and child advocacy services are available at no charge. Women do not have to live at the
shelter to receive these services. Over 350 children were served this year. A few male victims were assisted also.
“We’re here to help the victim get started over in an abuse free atmosphere,” Lingerfelt said.
Victims often feel the violence is their fault, according to Lingerfelt. The best strategy is to reassure the victim she is not to blame. Often family and
friends become discouraged when she does not leave immediately after disclosing the abuse.
“Keep on being a friend,” Lingerfelt said. “Tell them there is help.”
To attend the Tuesday night’s dinner, tickets must be reserved by 5 p.m. today by calling 704-736-0112. Tickets are $6.
The shelter’s 24 hour crisis line number is 704-736-1224.
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